Crystal Smith of The Achilles Effect blog looked at the words from TV commercials for toys and used Wordle to present the stark gender bias in toy advertising in graphic form. I'm not surprised at the presence of "battle" or "heroes" in boys' toys, but am quite suprised to find that "fun" is missing Link - via Wonderland
Words in ads for girls' toys
("fun" is there for the girls' though.)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Margaret_Mead
In brief, her comparative study revealed a full range of contrasting gender roles:
"Among the Arapesh, both men and women were peaceful in temperament and neither men nor women made war.
"Among the Mundugumor, the opposite was true: both men and women were warlike in temperament.
"And the Tchambuli were different from both. The men 'primped' and spent their time decorating themselves while the women worked and were the practical ones — the opposite of how it seemed in early 20th century America."
Perhaps gender-typing is not entirely responsible for the girl/boy divide in toy preference.
What IS wrong and unacceptable is how the toylines of media properties (such as action cartoons) leave out the female characters, even if they are part of the main cast.
I got into the habit of catching myself whenever I had even the slightest violent impulse. It became most obvious to me in the way I would impulsively stamp out the lives of insects inside and outside my home. If a bug wandered past me, I was likely to kill it. As I tried to stop doing this, I realized just how ingrained the behavior was. Even as I intended to stop doing it consciously, unconsciously I was still doing it. It made me disgusted with myself and the whole damn society for accepting this sort of thing.
Can you believe it, now when I see someone stamp out a bug I feel compassion for the bug. I don't say anything to the person, because I know the behavior isn't conscious. But I think of it in these terms; when I stamped out bugs, I could identify a shot of power, a sense of control originating from the subconcsious. Not much, but a slight sense of being bigger or having power. And that right there, disturbed me enough to not want to do it anymore.