Crystal Smith of The Achilles Effect blog looked at the words from TV commercials for toys and used Wordle to present the stark gender bias in toy advertising in graphic form. I'm not surprised at the presence of "battle" or "heroes" in boys' toys, but am quite suprised to find that "fun" is missing Link - via Wonderland
Words in ads for girls' toys
("fun" is there for the girls' though.)
I can't find the word 'princess' anywhere in the girl's word cluster. I find it very hard to believe that wasn't even in the top 10.
And I would tend to believe that the princess fantasy does as much to some girl's sense of entitlement as the word battle does to some boy's level of violent behavior.
From the word clouds, all being equal, were I shopping for my kids I would opt for the "girls" choice.
Sure there's minorities in both genders that have the opposite traits, but for the most part this is reality.
Equal rights were cool and all to get everybody on par in the workplace and in society and all that. But there's just no denying that there is a difference between men and women when it comes to personality traits.
Thanks for the info Alex, very interesting to my studies.
I got into the habit of catching myself whenever I had even the slightest violent impulse. It became most obvious to me in the way I would impulsively stamp out the lives of insects inside and outside my home. If a bug wandered past me, I was likely to kill it. As I tried to stop doing this, I realized just how ingrained the behavior was. Even as I intended to stop doing it consciously, unconsciously I was still doing it. It made me disgusted with myself and the whole damn society for accepting this sort of thing.
Can you believe it, now when I see someone stamp out a bug I feel compassion for the bug. I don't say anything to the person, because I know the behavior isn't conscious. But I think of it in these terms; when I stamped out bugs, I could identify a shot of power, a sense of control originating from the subconcsious. Not much, but a slight sense of being bigger or having power. And that right there, disturbed me enough to not want to do it anymore.
What IS wrong and unacceptable is how the toylines of media properties (such as action cartoons) leave out the female characters, even if they are part of the main cast.
Perhaps gender-typing is not entirely responsible for the girl/boy divide in toy preference.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Margaret_Mead
In brief, her comparative study revealed a full range of contrasting gender roles:
"Among the Arapesh, both men and women were peaceful in temperament and neither men nor women made war.
"Among the Mundugumor, the opposite was true: both men and women were warlike in temperament.
"And the Tchambuli were different from both. The men 'primped' and spent their time decorating themselves while the women worked and were the practical ones — the opposite of how it seemed in early 20th century America."