The rudeness of not returning an RSVP does not justify the rudeness of invoicing an unattended guest. Abusive comment hidden. (Show it anyway.)
Put clothing that unstylish, ill-fitting and unflattering on any shape person, and you will get looks... if she had properly fitted and proportioned clothes on from someplace other than Walmart's reject bin, there'd be no story here. Abusive comment hidden. (Show it anyway.)