Bella- No, you wouldn't. Believe me, I know. Try polyamory for a good period of time and see how you like it. Check out "The Ethical Slut" (on Amazon). Poly can be very difficult and painful, even if both partners have equal rights. You may want to look into BDSM, particularly the D/s aspect, as well..for a potentially healthier way to pursue your fantasies. See if there's a "munch" in your area. That's how I met my Dom. CollarMe.com and FetLife.com are also good resources to find like-minded people. ~jessica
No, you wouldn't. Believe me, I know. Try polyamory for a good period of time and see how you like it. Check out "The Ethical Slut" (on Amazon). Poly can be very difficult and painful, even if both partners have equal rights.
You may want to look into BDSM, particularly the D/s aspect, as well..for a potentially healthier way to pursue your fantasies. See if there's a "munch" in your area. That's how I met my Dom. CollarMe.com and FetLife.com are also good resources to find like-minded people.
~jessica