I recently went through the same thing. April 16,2010 I gave birth so a little boy named Michael A Higgs Jr. I was 21 weeks so he was 19 weeks early. There was nothing wrong with my child's health i just had an incompetent cervix which made me go into labor prematurely. But I did not have a choice to save my child. From the time i went into the hospital they said my child would NOT live and there was NOTHING they could do that he would be too small and under developed. He was 1lbs and 11 1/2 inches he was much bigger then they said he was going to be his breathing was fine! They never had intentions on treating him like any other premature baby, they never cleared his air passages nothing they never even came and checked on us after he was born. And it hurts to know that at 5 months its against the law to have an abortion but if u have a child at 5months they will not help that child survive. Its brings happiness to me to know that there are some places that help people in these situations. This family was very blessed! Because loosing a child is the worst thing u could ever imagine my heart gos out to this family especially baby Kimberly she will make these Dr.s rethink premature births because no matter what size all children deserve to be helped!!