I've read a few comments on here saying that the nurse was just trying to be nice and helpful, that people are overacting to a kind gesture. My response is that you can be a wonderful and kind caregiver without having to offer prayer or any other kind of religious absolution to your patient. It is possible to care about people without bringing religion into it. A patient should not have to feel obligated to react to their caregivers beliefs. It is just bad practice to assume that someone has the same beliefs as you in a work situation where you have to care for a diverse group of individuals. I'm an administrative assistant. If someone came into my office and told me they had a bad day and I said, "Would you like me to pray for you?" I would be reprimanded by my supervisor. It is an inappropriate response in a working situation. Like I said above, just like politics and charities are off limits in most workplaces, so should religion be off limits. The world is a changing place, the U.S. is especially mixed with a number of different cultures and ideas floating around. I don't think it is wrong to ask people to change to accommodate these new cultures and ideas. I have to withhold my personal ideas in the workplace. When someone comes into my office and talks about finding god as a wonderful experience (which has happened) I don't just get to say, "Actually, I think your beliefs are a culturally accepted psychosis." Because I know they would complain to my supervisor about it. I just do the professional thing and nod my head and make noncommittal noises. It doesn't matter what her intentions were her behavior was still ultimately unprofessional.
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