What these happy people do is their business. Our only son would be thrilled with a few siblings maybe even 18. I lost 2 babies before birth and we feel a great loss. I'm in favor of adoption or fostering and tried it but the faulty, unfriendly adoption system in US places many obstacles in the way of successful adoptions. Don't concern yourselves with dangers of over-population because God has His method of population control. Know this first of all, that in the last days mockers will come with their mocking, following after their own lusts, and saying, "Where is the promise of His coming? For ever since the fathers fell asleep, all continues just as it was from the beginning of creation - 2 Peter 3:3 & 4. But the day of the Lord will come like a thief, in which the heavens will pass away with a roar and the elements will be destroyed with intense heat, and the earth and its works will be burned up - 2 Peter 3:10. Jesus answered and said to him, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God." John 3:3. PREPARE TO MEET GOD.