Golden middle is always the best option. If your love for your child is 100% conditional and depends on his or her achievements - chances are (according to the article) they won't "feel worthy as adults". However if you love them unconditionally no matter their wrong doings, if you close your eyes on things that they should not be doing, like the way they treat other kids, then they grow up extremely selfish and self-centered. They would demand the same unconditional love from a spouse and if they won't see it on a regular basis, they are doomed to have an unhappy marriage.
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