Obviously those who complain that the "servants" (waitstaff, vendors, etc...) are rude have never had a job in that position. As someone who has, I can tell you that after hearing so many demands (Give me, I need, I'll take, etc... no Please or thank you ever in America)I think it's not rude... only a little more straight-forward than we are used to.
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