I appreciate the women who do not seek out 'female bonding' & hats of the courageous Grace for being close to her husband. I just found out that my wife 'bonded' (got intimate)a little to much with her girlfriend that she can talk to for hours and completely ignore me in the process. Ironicaly when we were dating she said she liked my stoicism. I do not make friends easily or lightly but I expect spouses to be best friends. Now we are faced with possible divorce due to her wanderings, we have four children together whos lives I do not want to ruin. So to all you females seeking deeper relationships with other females....keep your hands to yourself and go talk to your hubby... he might not respond like your girlfriend but he is the only one you should deeply bond with.