The little girl did not fall. She did not hit her head and die. What's done is done, quit being such pessimists and enjoy life; they aren't forcing you to let your children stand on counters. Let them raise their kids how they want. This movie was put up to share something positive not for them to get advice on how to be a parent. Judging by the intellect of their four year old I'd say they were doing a damn good job.