I disapprove not of her being up on a counter, but of her overly rosy attitude toward life. I believe that, in order for children to grow up to be healthy, well-rounded human beings, they should be exposed early on (as in around Jessica's age in the video, if not younger) to a realistic outlook on life with both positives and negatives. An overly positive outlook on life is far more dangerous than standing over a bathroom sink - it sets one up for a lifetime of crushing disappointments and to make foolish decisions based on love and trust.