As #109 mentioned, for anything to be considered "BBQ" (or any of the variations on spelling), a pig must die! (Except in Texas where they BBQ beef, but what would you expect from folks who don't put beans in their chili?) All else is "grilling" or "cooking on the grill". The term is typically misused by those not from or living in the South(east and west) ... 8^)
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