Activists say that unmarried people are systematically discriminated against. They pay more for health and car insurance than married people do. They don’t get the same kind of tax breaks. Co-op boards, mortgage brokers, and landlords often pass them over. So do the employers with the power to promote them. “Single-ism—stereotyping, stigmatizing, and discrimination against people who are single—is largely unrecognized and unchallenged,” says activist Bella DePaulo, the author of Singled Out.
There are justifications for every one of these, but that doesn't mean much to individuals who don't like being lumped into a group. But the differences swing both ways, depending on a person's circumstances. I personally know people who choose to cohabit instead of marrying because of economic reasons. Low income people can lose Medicaid and other benefits if they marry, and elderly widows can lose pensions by remarrying. And we've all heard stories of married women being passed over for promotions because they might get pregnant. So is there really any way to achieve equity between those who are married and those who aren't? Link
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But generally? It is not unfair. Marriage provides substantial benefits to the couple be combining important expenses like housing and food. In return married couples generally require public assistance much less than singles do especially when families and children are taken into account.
"well, it was between you and XXXXX and XXXXX has a family who they help support so.... im letting you go"
i could have argued, but it was a shitty job and XXXXX was/is my friend so i walked away. still thought it was a clear form of discrimination, just not one worth arguing about.
"Get over it. Jeez, people, discrimination is everywhere, except that nobody discrimiates against people who really are good at what they do."
You are kidding, right? Your comment is historically ignorant on an inexplicable scale and shows absolutely no empathy for those who have and still do experience hardship due to discrimination.
"Do your work and shut up."
Yeah, pity you can't go back in time to explain to the likes of Gandhi, Martin Luther King, and a host of other social reformers how badly they are wasting their time by trying to make things fair for everyone.
'idiocracy'... quite the catch 22... does it not seem like only stupid people are breeding?
Marriage is dying in this country because it has increasingly become a wealth-transfer transaction to extract capital from men and transfer it to women and their affiliates. Good riddance!
Having the child itself should be the reason you get tax breaks, not marriage.
The only thing wrong with the child-rearing comment is that there are a lot of single parents raising the future workers, inventors, teachers, etc...
Should we take away the preferential tax treatment if you end up raising a future Hitler? lol
In the corporate world, 100% true.
Also, the tax bracket ceilings for married couples are lower than 2x the individual rates.
Thus, two individuals making $85,649 in a year would each pay 25% on their income, whereas the married combination, $171,298, is higher than the ceiling of $142,700 and thus falls into the 28% tax bracket.
Marriage generally comes with a greater or equal tax burden. In very few scenarios does it work out to have a lesser burden.
it's not discrimination if they don't receive the benefit. that's why it's called a benefit for marriage.
I'm guessing the complaining is coming from those who don't want to get married because they plan on eventually dumping the girlfriend they've had for years, hoping to find someone better.