Bus drivers in Brighton and Hove, England, are finding out the answer the hard way: their bosses are forbidding them from referring to passengers as "babe," "love," or "darling" because of complaints.
But critics of the move argued that such terms were part of the region's linguistic heritage, and that people were simply employing traditional Geordie terms of endearments.
So when bus drivers, cabbies and shopkeepers the nation over use words like "luvvie", "darling" or "flower", they are being "affectionate, not patronising", says Tony Thorne, editor of the Dictionary of Contemporary Slang.
"It's only urban sophisticates - usually under the age of 40 - who choose to find them distasteful. It is the 'language hygienists' who choose to see them as discrimination," he says.
"It's folksy - part of a tradition in this country, a momentary affection between strangers. I know people who don't live in Britain any more and when they come back they say how much they like to hear terms of affection, such as the Essex 'babes'."
So, what do you think Neatoramanauts? Is it sexist to call someone "babe"? Link
I usually just say, "That'll do, pig."
So let's say that that bus driver was trying to hit on me. What's the harm? I will get offended if somebody ask me "to go back to the kitchen, where I belong".
People doesn't know what to complain about.
Nearly every woman in London called me 'gorgeous or 'love.
My girlfriend's town/region is routinely ribbed for saying to everyone, " 'ello moy luvver!"
-Surprised it's even an issue there.
You'd normally think insane careerist women or feminazis in NYC would be the ones making headlines about it.
-What with several women's supervisors apparently destroying their entire lives forever,
by being people who naturally use body-language & touch people on the elbow while speaking to them as a habit.
Those guys just got their careers straight-up Destroyed for having some kind of European culture like Spain/France/Italy/Portugal/Other as part of their heritage/cultural legacy.
Now if some builder yells "Hey baby!" when I walk by on the street, I will take a little offence, because they're obviously not doing it with the purest intentions.
I call people love, sweetie, sweetheart, sweets, babe, babes, honey, hunny, love, lovey, pet, petal, dear and dearie all the time IRL and on Twitter and have had no complaints. It's being friendly not patronising x