Tired of unruly kids in schools, Temple, Texas has brought back a discipline method banned by most school districts long ago: it's bringing back the paddle.
But even by Texas standards, Temple is unusual. The city, a compact railroad hub of 60,000 people, banned the practice and then revived it at the demand of parents who longed for the orderly schools of yesteryear. Without paddling, "there were no consequences for kids," said Steve Wright, who runs a construction business and is Temple's school board president.
Since paddling was brought back to the city's 14 schools by a unanimous board vote in May, behavior at Temple's single high school has changed dramatically, Wright said, even though only one student in the school system has been paddled.
"The discipline problem is much better than it's been in years," Wright said, something he attributed to the new punishment and to other discipline programs schools are trying. Residents of the city's comfortable homes, most of which sport neighborly, worn chairs out front, praise the change.
Michael Bimbaum of The Washington Post has the story: Link (Photo: Tom Fox/Dallas Morning News)
Previously on Neatorama: Spanking Children Makes Them More Aggressive
Of the 352 students who attended prom, 18 violated the policy (dress code, and rather then bar them from attending..), he said. Seventeen of them chose to be paddled, while DeRamus chose a three-day suspension, Holloday said.
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Either thinking back on my own childhood, or watching parents deal with children in public places as I get older I realize just how empty most parental threats are (send you to your room, take away your game, sit in the corner....) because the kids just don't care. Most parents don't follow through on these threats, and when they do it often turns out to be more of an inconvenience to the parent than the child, who just finds other ways to cause trouble or entertain themselves. It's more of a challenge than a punishment.
If spanking is necessary for a while during a child's development, while they are still in the process of really learning the consequences of their actions, there's nothing wrong with that in my opinion.
What's really wrong is not paying attention to whether your actions are actually having a notable positive effect on the child, or causing harm and/or not adjusting your discipline accordingly. Every child is different and discipline is not universal. Like most things we should be encouraging smart parenting and decision making, not just targeting one mild behavior out of fear.
But I don't see a problem unless there is a child seriously acting out because of *other* home problems (reaction to physical abuse, etc).
Uh huh, yes. That totally makes sense. :S
"Rules about paddling vary from district to district, but typically only administrators, not teachers, can mete out the punishment, which is done in private."
I think a certain Texan city is going to encounter an increase of interruptions in class that originate from female students.
Honestly, I would enforce justice if anyone did that to me or one of my loved ones. And the answer might come with more than a paddle.
This is nothing about 'teaching kids respect' and everything about endemic paternalism that makes it so that teachers think they have the right to inflict corporal punishment that doesn't even work.
Respect you Jaymez? If you can't get me to respect you without first beating me maybe you don't deserve my respect.
I would recommend paddling for adults too, since it is so wonderfully efficacious and so many commenters just salivate at the idea of children being paddled. Run a light or stop sign, bend over and be paddled by the cop. Speeding? That's a paddlin'. Using a check on the express lane at the grocer's? A paddlin'. That'll teach 'em.
I see lack of respect for instructors and school staff by students, everyday. The few students that I know for a fact, who do recieve old fashioned discipline, are respectful.
Any teacher (or anyone else) ever hits one of my kids because of some infraction on school grounds -- well, they will have to deal me.
Gaining kids' respect and attention requires a good educator, not a paddle. Problems go away when children understand why they are being taught and are treated respectfully themselves.
The problem overall is the educational system, not the kids. I hated being locked up in a classroom 8 hours per day -- and mind you I was a great student who attended an Ivy League college and graduated Phi Beta Kappa. It is an unnatural existence for a 10 year old boy to be cooped up all day. But the history of education in America owes to a system that needed to create a working class in the late 19th century... thus the school bell (created so that kids would learn about factory bells).
The system is outmoded and broken. Paddles won't fix it.
having to deal with the interrupters in class k-12 is seriously disrupting to the students that *are* well behaved. the teachers i learned the most from were the ones that ran a tight ship and childish hijinks were curtailed right away. if the parents give their consent, and it's regulated- go for it.
why don't you maniacs simply hand out guns to everyone and get it over with? that way we'd have some discipline on the world, since some certain socially and ethically underdeveloped super nations simply would cease to exist.
To say that spanking is always good is wrong. To say that spanking is always bad is also wrong. Both points are unrealistic as to how authority throughout life functions. I know, for myself, that the handful of occasions I was spanked as a young child were absolutely necessary, in that they played a roll in establishing, very clearly, who was in control in my household. But my parents didn't whack me every time I misbehaved either. It was seen as an absolute last resort, and my parents never spanked me past the age of about 6-7.
My dad always said if you couldn't reason with a kid past that age you had absolutely failed as a parent and were never going to hold a position of authority in your house. Although many of my friends and extended family thought my parents were strict, they were respected by everyone. As an adult of 26 years, many people have told me that my parents "obviously did something right" because I'm more respectful, polite, intelligent, and disciplined than my peer group. And yeah, spanking did play a role in that upbringing.
I got paddled in school. You know what I had at home? TWO loving parents. We were relatively well off, I wasn't abused, but I still acted up. Because I liked it. Got paddled once - my parents found out about it and I got spanked when I got home. Know what? I never acted up to that extent, either. And guess what else (which is going to come as a shock to all you pussies out there) - I was never arrested, never did drugs, never had a kid out of wedlock AND, I have a job that most people would KILL for.
Here's a comparative study for you. I have a cousin with two kids that doesn't believe in spanking, and a cousin with three kids that does. No-spanking cousin has the most ILL BEHAVED KIDS on the face of the planet. I went to a family function this weekend and was MORTIFIED at the behavior of the non-spanked kids. The spanked kids actually commented to the adults how "only bad boys act like that". The spanked kids knew how to act in public and were able to recognize that their own cousins were acting like a bunch of monkeys.
This all goes back to the pussification of the world. Nobody can fail, nobody can get their feelings hurt, nobody can pay for their actions, and nobody ever deals with consequences. That's cool though. Because my kids will be running fortune 500 companies while YOUR kids are in "indie" bands milking off mom and dad until they're 36.
When I read in the paper, or see on tv a child of 6 or seven commiting crimes that were just unheard of in our day is appalling. Parents, and teachers rights have been taken away leaving us that do have some children that time-out, grounding doesn't seem to work, nothing to back us up. Yet, with that right taken away when a small, child and even young teens get in trouble with the law, they get tried as adults, now that I think is a worse injustice to the youth than suffering a spanking in school or at home.