Men like it when women let them know that they're happy. That much is not surprising, but what is remarkable is that the reverse is actually not true.
According to research by psychologist Shiri Cohen at Massachusetts General Hospital, women like it best when men share their anger and frustration:
"The women tend to want to engage around conflict," she told Shots. "They're deriving more satisfaction when they see that their partner is upset."
Evidently we women see a man's willingness to share negative feelings as a sign that he's invested in the relationship. Cohen says: "That's telling her something about his availability to engage in the conflict."
Men feel exactly the opposite about those moments of conflict: They see it as a threat to the relationship. Instead, Cohen says, "They do derive satisfaction when their girlfriends or wives are happy."
Nancy Shute of NPR's health blog Shots has the story: Link
Comments (13)
As the saying goes, if mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy.
(Am I doing it right? How long before Scarlet Johansson shows up?)
this would make a good reality show, what cavemen
Only because in church one's enemies rarely attack so openly. A knife in the back is more common than punch in the face.
So basically, they were playing king of the tomb.
Let's fight them in the heads and kill their trousers.
The monks, all Christians, have carried out what had occurred in Heaven originally with Lucifer. And so, we move in that preordained circle of Envy, Pride, and Jealousy. There’s nothing original about the conduct of these monks; nothing gained toward moving us all to the truth, since they have decided to take a page from Lucifer’s dark mind.
Shame!